Am looking for relationship, not hookup

Am not a prostitute or take money for ****, am an independent woman I would have love to do other things first, such as chit chat, laugh, talk, drink coffee, go for a walk, watch a movie,dance, if I don’t do this things first, I don’t see my self sleeping with anyone... old fashioned I know but **** is really nothing... but definitely not for money, I want things to happen naturally. I work a good