Dinner night out, all bills on me. I am not a prostitute

I dont ask for money for sex  am an independent woman I would have love to do other things first, such as chit chat, laugh, talk, drink coffee, go for a walk, watch a movie,dance, if I don’t do this things first, I don’t see my self sleeping with anyone... old fashioned I know but sex is really nothing... but definitely not for money, I want things to happen naturally. I work a good job in the medical line and I have a son, am divorced, and I could say I was born with a sliver spoon 🥄 so money is never a problem just to be with a good man and a more mature man... more attracted to older men.